Tuesday, October 28, 2014

It's not about winning the game....

 
            When it comes to winning in any sort of situation, whether it is in a sporting event, competition, or award ceremony to what extent are we willing to go in order to win? Are we willing to sacrifice what is right and only think of ourselves? Or will we work as a team to achieve something far more valuable than any award or trophy could ever give us?  And if so what will that mean to us in the future?

            I have never been the best baseball player but I would always try my hardest to contribute to the team in any way that I could. I always played outfield and whenever the ball came to me I would throw the ball to where ever it needed to be. However, when it came to one particular season, I became one of the key factors to my team’s success.  During this season I was one of the driving forces that brought in the most runs. Whenever I would go up to bat I would either get hit by the pitch or be walked. As a result I got on base very often. When I first started getting on base, I tried to steal bases but had difficulty getting the hang of it. In one particular practice the coach worked with me on sliding and stealing bases. As a result I led the league in the most stolen bases, as well as the most walks. By the end of the season we had made it to the play offs. We had worked so hard as a team all around and it did not matter if we had won or lost. We were just glad that we had made it to this point. We ended up winning two playoff games which led us to the championship. It was what happened at the championship game that came to teach us all a very important lesson about life.

            It was the bottom of the ninth and we were up by one. There were two outs and a runner on third.  The coach on the other team decided to make an illegal substitution by replacing the batter who was about to go up with his best hitter on the team.  Parents got outraged and started yelling at the umpire to do something. The umpire called time out and had the two coaches come to the plate and talk. The coach on the other team started yelling and screaming at my coach, but my coach kept it cool. My coach decided not to challenge or argue with the other coach and left the mound. The umpire ultimately decided to let the other coach switch his batter. As a result we ended up losing the game and getting second place.

            After the game was over, our coach had us all sit down and had a talk. He asked us what we thought we did well during the season. We talked about how we all worked as a team and supported one another. Whenever someone on the team had a particular area of weakness, we would as a team work with and encourage that person to become better at what they were struggling with. 

Then we had a discussion about the game we just played and I will always remember what the coach said to us that night, “Boys in life, winning the game is not what is important, it’s how you play it and how you remember it. If you play the game just to win you’re not really playing the game. Baseball, or any sport in general is about having fun and working as a team.  Don’t get me wrong winning is important, but there comes a point where it doesn’t matter if you’ve won or lost. It’s what you were able to accomplish up to that point that makes the world of a difference. We made it so far thanks to you guys. We worked as a team and played the hardest that we could and in my book that’s all that will ever matter. To me you are all true champions, no matter what happens in the game, or in life.”

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