Friday, May 23, 2014

The roar of the crowd is about as invigorating as fire works bursting in the sky.
No matter where you sit you are apart of the game.
The spirit and the love of  the game clinches the air.
This is the city that  above all has shown resilience and strength.
This is Boston and We are Boston Strong.  

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

The Digital Divide: To Disconnect or Connect the Digtal Revoultion


              As society continues to grow technology has become a vital aspect of an individual’s everyday lives. Everywhere people are surrounded by technology. Whether it is computers, smartphones or even in cars there is no escape from the pressing need for technology. Modern day technology provides several benefits but it is also associated with many social risks. Many factors attribute to these social risks such as: lack of face to face communication, cyber bullying and texting while driving.  The fall out of communication technology has attributed to many social repercussions which in turn have harmed society.

                Whether it is a social gathering or out for a walk in the park people will see individuals glued to their smartphones. They believe that their world will fall apart if they lose that connection. Warren Adler who wrote on the Huffington post recounts a particular Thanksgiving: It was Thanksgiving evening and my entire family had gathered together for supper. While at supper it was completely silent. Everyone was checking their phones and it was as if my family members were irrelevant to one another (Alder). Thanksgiving is meant to be a time when families come together and give thanks. It’s a time where a family gets together to talk about what’s going on in their lives. For some it might be one of the rare occasions where they are united as one family. In Adler’s case, rather than his family talking to one another they were too distracted and feared not being connected.  The smartphone technology creates a social barrier, which limits face to face interaction.  Even in the day to day business world cellular usage has taken over.  A CNN reporter went around and interviewed various people about cell phone addiction: “Bud Kleppe, a 32-year-old real estate agent in St. Paul, Minnesota, said he can't be away from his BlackBerry for any amount of time. He's more likely to sell a home, he said, if he responds to client’s e-mails within 20 minutes and to texts instantly.” (Sutter)   People live in an age where if they need to find out information all it takes is a few clicks of a button. No longer are people required to read through books or flip through newspapers. Society wants information and they want it now. While it might be quicker and easier to find a house on the internet it lacks the physical face to face interaction. Pictures can only show so much about a house. Real estate agents trying to sell the house will deter from showing parts of a house that might otherwise change one’s mind. Whereas, if one was physically present at the house they would see the problems with the house and they might be more likely to think things over. Many individuals have trouble separating work from leisure time. Much of their vacation time is spent on their cell phones checking and responding to emails. A man while on a vacation with his family freaked out when he lost his phone:

 Jared, a 42 year- old business man, lost his work cellphone while on a family vacation in the snowy mountains and got really grumpy, then difficult to be around, then panicky. This went on for the whole day, with arguing and fighting between him and his wife about what he had to do to replace the phone, which involved leaving early and driving immediately to the phone store.... Jared was so worked up that he was convinced that he'd lost all of his contact information, many work related emails, and some important files. (Rosen 47-48)

Like Jared, many people need technology in order to function. Without it they transform into something that they’re not. The phone was found by his daughter, she feared the repercussions from her father in giving the phone back to him. It just goes to show how much individuals rely on their technology to get them through their day. Individuals may need to stay connected but at what cost they may ask themselves?

                As society’s need to communicate increases, social media has become one of the most popular ways of communicating, particularly social networking sites such as Twitter and Facebook. As these forums of media continue to grow, younger kids are embracing this technology. This in turn makes children more susceptible to bullying:

Because kids spend so much time communicating to their peers online, they may be losing social skills needed for real interactions with others. According to this view, the internet makes friendships seem more like abstractions or commodities than real human relationships. These circumstances, cyber bullies can regard their behavior as a casual thing that doesn’t have consequences in the real world. (Cyberbullying)

Since communicating through social networking has become a valid form of communication many kids use it to talk with their peers online. However, unlike in the classroom there is no one to stand up for these children, making it easier for the bully. In such cases since there is no face to face communication, it’s easier to say something online and get away with it: “In a recent study carried out by Microsoft 1 out of 10 teenagers said they had been bullied online.” (Engdahl 136) This study represents a growing trend and society must act before it is too late.  The laws are only beginning to catch up with cyber bullying: A mother created a fake Facebook account and bullied a friend of her daughters, which resulted in this girl committing suicide. No punishment was handed out. (Thomas 158-159)  At the time of the girl’s death there were no laws against cyberbullying. Even though laws were later passed to ensure that this would never happen again the mother could not be punished. Had there been laws preventing cyberbullying perhaps that young girl would still be alive today. Once something has been posted online there is no way of taking it back: “Once the comments are released to a worldwide audience at the click of "send” it's next to impossible to delete them and therefore there is no escape for the victim." (Rosen 136) These words will forever haunt them. The question one must ask themselves at the end of the day is, how does society prevent this technology from causing further harm?

            One of the fastest growing epidemics hitting the road ways today is texting while driving. Alarmingly according to a recent poll done by Harris: ”60% of drivers use cell phones while driving.”  (Harris Poll) This not only compromises the safety of the drivers themselves but also innocent bystanders. In a study recently carried out by the Pew Research it said:

 The Pew Internet and American life project published a 2009 report that focused specifically on teens and distracted driving. Among their findings were that nearly 75% of those ages 12 to 17 years old owned a cell phone. Of these, 34% admit to texting while driving. Additionally 48% of teens say they were passengers in the car when a driver was texting. Of these, 40% felt that sometimes cell phone use compromise safety of themselves or the safety of others. (Texting while driving)

Today it has become the social norm to text while driving. It is common to think nothing of texting while driving. It goes to show how much communication technology has taken over. Pew Research Study talks about how 40 percent of teenagers were passenger while the driver was texting and they felt their safety was compromised. However, they did not act they just allowed the driver to continue to jeopardize their safety. “Five seconds is the average time your eyes are off the road while texting. When traveling at 55 mph, that's enough, time to cover the length of a football field.” (VTTI) During that time frame a lot could go wrong. A person could lose control of their car, hit a person or animal. Shockingly, it states on the Edgar Snyder Law Attorneys website:  According to the Insurance Institute for Highway Safety, texting while driving kills 11 teens each day.” (Snyder)  That means 4,015 teenager die each year, due to careless distracted driving, which could’ve easily been prevented, had they been paying attention to the road. Individuals must ask themselves at the end of each and every day is a single text worth a life?

          The Nelson article exams the positive impact that technology has had on society. While there are some benefits to technology there argument had several flaws. One aspect they look at is speed:                       

Technology has amplified the rate at which we communicate with the world around us. Developments like email, instant messaging, texting, cell phones, twitter; social networking sites like Facebook and Myspace, and video conferencing have allowed us to connect with each other at breakneck speeds. This has helped us in some ways by allowing us to get in touch with each other quickly for both business and emergency needs. (Nelson)

As important as speed is when communicating in everyday lives this has caused people to become reckless. When people are mad they will tend to send nasty emails to another person that they may later regret. The worst part about this is the fact that there is no taking this back. A permanent digital record will be stored which may come back to haunt individuals in the future. The article also states that people can communicate more efficiently through emails:

Instead of having to have a long conversation with a client about his kids and home life before asking a quick question about an order, a brief and to-the-point email can be sent to accomplish the same task.” (Nelson)

While it might be quicker and easier to send a quick message it lacks social skills. In life people will not always have the ability to hide behind a device. When it comes to applying for a job, people need to be able to communicate to the employer about what their strengths and weakness are. If individuals don’t have the ability to communicate one to one, then they won’t get hired.


            John Sutter a reporter for CNN wrote an article that examined smartphones and their impact on people lives. He goes on to explain how technology has had an impact on his life. He then goes on to interviewed different people about their different experiences. One man recounts an entire hour where he was glued to his phone and had complete disregard of what was going on around him:

I'm just out of touch with reality sometimes because of my phone -- I can just look at all the apps and stuff like that and just dream about the iPad and whatever -- wishing my screen was bigger -- and without realizing it, well, I haven't said anything to my wife for an hour. It's not that great." (Sutter)

This goes to show peoples addiction with technology. People who are plugged in are in a trance and as technology becomes more prominent in their lives the further they will fall into it. Another person commented about how he has to carry his phone in his hands at all times. Otherwise it’s too risky and he may lose the opportunity to take a picture. (Sutter) This man cannot keep his phone in his pocket. He has to have it in his hands all the time. It’s like his security blanket. The question society must ask themselves has the use of technology gone too far?  

             Today as individuals head out into the world they are surrounded by the ever changing technology. While technology has allowed them to stay connected to the global economy it has come with a cost. As people head out into the world today they should ask themselves the following questions:
1. When at a restaurant with friends or family do they constantly check their phone?
2. Have they ever sent or posted something online that was offensive or made fun of another person?
 3. When driving down the highway have they ever glanced over to the car next to them and saw the driver texting?

If individuals were able to answer yes to any of the above, they must realize that communication technology accompanies consequences that can cause harm to others. Whether to connect or disconnect society must find a happy medium.


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Engdahl, Sylvia. Online Social Networking. Farmington Hills, MI: Greenhaven, 2007. 136. Print

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            Consequences Begin? Minneapolis, MN: Free Spirit Pub., 2010. 158-59. Print

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Saturday, May 10, 2014

Words of Wisdom: Balloon

I have a simple philosophy: Fill what's empty. Empty what is full. Scratch were it itches.
-Alice Roosevelt Longworth

If a glass is empty fill it. If a glass is fill empty it. This goes with anything in life. Take for example a balloon. In order for a balloon to take it's shape air must be blown into it. If a person blows too much air it will cause the balloon to pop. If the person blows to little air the balloon will become to flimsy. Where as if they blow just enough air the balloon will take it's shape and will float up into the world.

Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Day by day, night by night we come alive like fireworks glimmering in the sky.
At this moment we are infinite and free.
The past is far behind us and all that's in front of us is the sun rising upon the day.
We are like the moon upon this day, emulating the night sky.
As the wind  approaches from the distance it calls out: 'Seize the day for today is you're day!"
For at this moment we were born to be wild. 


  

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Childhood

Envious are we of the moments that seem so long ago, yet remain so close in our hearts.
The moments where we were free as children, never having a burden the world .
The days where we wanted to be the superhero who would come to save  the damsel in distress;  or the  chivalrous knight  that slays  the fire breathing dragon.
Yet as we grow older our minds tend to wander less and less.
Chocolate paradises become faded memories  that are replaced with structure and order.
Although some of us hold onto her childhood imagination.
Those of us who do are like spider webs at present.
We remain still  but we have an everlasting beauty.
Were there to catch what is fallen or overlooked  and hang onto it  with all our might.